Change your narrative

 

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As a life coach, one of the most exciting and fascinating experience for me is taking individuals on a journey of transformation, moving them from where they currently are to where they desire to be.

 

Through this experience of engaging with people, I discovered that one thing that has hampers on the success of many people is their narrative about themselves.

 

Many people have a false narrative of themselves and they believe it and have lived with this falsehood for a long time…

 

Some people had their wrong narrative created from unpleasant experiences they had at various stages of their lives and the result has been limiting because they believed the false narrative.

 

When a bird created and designed to fly believes it can’t fly, that bird will automatically lack the courage to spread it wings, flap them and fly.

 

If you truly desire good success and greater accomplishments, then you’ve got to change your narrative.

 

Find the truth, believe it and make it your narrative.

 

Change your narrative now!

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RELENTLESS PURSUIT

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Very recently, I read a news from one of my favorite news websites about a man who has achieved a great feat and it’s worth sharing.

 

Mohammed Abubakar joined the aviation industry in Nigeria some 24 years ago as an aircraft cleaner but that wasn’t his final destination because he had a dream…

 

He obviously couldn’t afford his luxurious dream at the time, but he chose to be relentless in his pursuit towards his dream.

 

He obviously would have had the roughest of times working as a cleaner but he chose not to throw away his tomorrow over the frustrations of yesterday.

 

He kept his dream alive

 

He kept his passion burning

 

He kept his hands diligent and kept taking those little steps of faith towards his greatness.

 

And after 24 years, he rose from obscurity to significance as he watched his dream come true, from an aircraft cleaner to a qualified pilot!

 

Today he is wears a captain’s badge and carries out flight operations for one of the famous airlines in Nigeria.

 

As you read his story and admire his accomplishments, you must realize that “pursuit is the proof of desire”, so never let the pains of the past or present stifle the hope of the future.

 

Dreams come true!

 

You must be and remain R E L E N T L E S S in your pursuit until you watch your dream become reality.

 

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Accelerate your daily achievements

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Every new day offers us fresh opportunities to make a difference and achieve our greatness.

 
However, the steps we take and principles we follow will always determines the results we achieve.

 
So today I’ll share with you 3 simple but powerful and critical questions that will guarantee your achievements at all times. You need to ask:

 
1. What do you really want? – This question gives clarity of desire. Life offers us a variety of choices to make at all times, you must be clear and sure about your preferences.

 
2. Why do you want it? – This question reveals the purpose of your desire. When purpose is not known abuse becomes inevitable. You must have a good understanding of the reason for your desire.

 

3. What steps do you take to achieve it? – This question gives precise direction to your desire. You need to take the right steps and have the right plans, strategies, objectives and targets that will help you execute efficiently in order to birth your dreams and turn your ideas to fruition.

 

So it’s up to you now, to ask these questions, find genuine answers and execute until you win today and always!

 

Here’s to your success…

 

Cheers!

 

 

Unlocking the doors of success

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In a recent chat with a friend about business success, I pointed out four key factors that will help any young entrepreneur succeed amongst others and I want to share those thoughts with you.

 

1. You must get used to rejection: For many reasons, people out there will hate your ideas, misunderstand, misinterpret and out rightly reject you and your amazing dream and ideas as you journey in the world of business, but you must get used to it. Rejection must provoke redirection and reprojection and never ejection.

 

2. You must be relentless: Recently a friend of mine wrote of how he was inspired by failure and has grown to become a force to be reckoned with in the world of entrepreneurship in his state. This was only possible because he was relentless! Many people fail and fall and quickly give up for one reason or the other, but my friend failed forward and his failure has propelled him to greater heights.

 
3. You must have faith: One universal secret of success is FAITH. Your belief about yourself and your dream plays a critical role in determining whether or not you will rise or fall. Without faith, success becomes largely impossible!

 

4. You must know your game well: Athletes win because they master their games and even in the game of business, Mastery thrives over mediocrity. It is therefore your responsibility to know your game, master it and play to win. And when you become a master, choose to grow your mastery in order to remain relevant.

 

I shared these thoughts spontaneously as I chatted with my friend about how my journey to the world of business has been.

 

There are certainly other factors that breed success but if you’re a young business minded person with big dreams, then I urge you to note these four factors listed above and apply yourself diligently.

 

See you at the top!

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Creative Problem Solving

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Very recently, as I surfed the web page of a popular online news forum, I came across a headline announcing the new invention of a country that would host the Olympics in 2020 and I was curious to find out…

As I read through the news, I was amazed to discover how they had just invented mobile mosques ahead of the Olympic games to help visiting muslim tourists find a comfortable place to pray (5 times) daily during the games period.

This country is a minority muslim country but they realized that a lot of muslim tourists will partake in the games, hence the need for prayer centers for them.

Pheew! Such brilliant discovery..

They discovered a need and took the initiative to birth creative solutions to meet the need.

There are several other needs around us every day!

You must train your mind to see these opportunities and your hands to craft out creative solutions to meet these needs and solve these problems…

By so doing, you create value and get rewarded with wealth all because you solved a problem.

What problems have you discovered and what are you doing to solve them creatively?

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Crush your barriers!

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During a coaching session some years back with my coach, I realized that I had certain barriers that had limited by potential and invariably my accomplishments.

I realized that for a long time, most of my internal dialogues were limiting instead of empowering me and I saw how limiting beliefs can trap a gold in it’s raw form and stop it from going through the process that will manifest it’s true self.

Today I have been able to crush the barriers that limited me in the past and I’m soaring.

So I ask you, what is that story, excuse, experience that has become a barrier and obstacle and is limiting your accomplishments?

You too can crush your barriers and soar higher…

Ask me how?

 

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Plan for success

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It’s amazing how many people intend to succeed and accomplish much in life without a plan and they can’t name one achievement all through the first half of this year, not because they never desired something good but just because they had no plan.

 

Truth be told, if you must end the year with a better output, then you gotta plan for success!
Planning is not complex.. it is a written down formula for actualizing and replicating success.

 

As you plan, you must learn to plan with a pen and paper…. Always write down your plans, which should consist of: Goals, Objectives, Strategies, Targets and Tasks.

 

A good plan reveals your “what” and your “how” to you on how to clearly move from dream to actualization.

 

Now, regardless of how the first half turned out to be, in this second half refuse to remain ignorant or casual about your dreams…

 

Plan your way to success!

 

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