Change your narrative

 

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As a life coach, one of the most exciting and fascinating experience for me is taking individuals on a journey of transformation, moving them from where they currently are to where they desire to be.

 

Through this experience of engaging with people, I discovered that one thing that has hampers on the success of many people is their narrative about themselves.

 

Many people have a false narrative of themselves and they believe it and have lived with this falsehood for a long time…

 

Some people had their wrong narrative created from unpleasant experiences they had at various stages of their lives and the result has been limiting because they believed the false narrative.

 

When a bird created and designed to fly believes it can’t fly, that bird will automatically lack the courage to spread it wings, flap them and fly.

 

If you truly desire good success and greater accomplishments, then you’ve got to change your narrative.

 

Find the truth, believe it and make it your narrative.

 

Change your narrative now!

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RELENTLESS PURSUIT

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Very recently, I read a news from one of my favorite news websites about a man who has achieved a great feat and it’s worth sharing.

 

Mohammed Abubakar joined the aviation industry in Nigeria some 24 years ago as an aircraft cleaner but that wasn’t his final destination because he had a dream…

 

He obviously couldn’t afford his luxurious dream at the time, but he chose to be relentless in his pursuit towards his dream.

 

He obviously would have had the roughest of times working as a cleaner but he chose not to throw away his tomorrow over the frustrations of yesterday.

 

He kept his dream alive

 

He kept his passion burning

 

He kept his hands diligent and kept taking those little steps of faith towards his greatness.

 

And after 24 years, he rose from obscurity to significance as he watched his dream come true, from an aircraft cleaner to a qualified pilot!

 

Today he is wears a captain’s badge and carries out flight operations for one of the famous airlines in Nigeria.

 

As you read his story and admire his accomplishments, you must realize that “pursuit is the proof of desire”, so never let the pains of the past or present stifle the hope of the future.

 

Dreams come true!

 

You must be and remain R E L E N T L E S S in your pursuit until you watch your dream become reality.

 

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8 simple keys to a fruitful week

 

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It’s a new week and it offers us 7 distinct days to live, work, achieve and become. However, we must not be casual about each week we step into but we must be intentional about the results we achieve.

 

 

So today I’ll share 8 simple keys to a fruitful week:

 

 

1. Review the previous week- find out what worked and what didn’t and why

 

 

2. Have a heart of gratitude- You must be grateful to God for life, health, wisdom, grace and the gift of a new week, you must also be benevolent.

 

 
3. Have a plan for the week- you must know what you intend to achieve in the new week, write it down as it will give you direction.

 

 

4. Break down your plans- It’s important to break it down to enable efficient accomplishments. Break it down into goals, objectives, strategies, targets and tasks.

 

 

5. Follow your plan to the later- After planning, it’s your responsibility to focus on your plan, execute diligently and refuse to be distracted.

 

 

6. Read, think, grow- As you go through your week ensure that you improve yourself by adding value. Expand your horizon, learn as much as you can, seek professional help too and grow.

 

 

7. Take care of you- You must find time to take care of you because your body is the vehicle of your purpose. Eat, rest, exercise and remain purposeful.

 

 

8. Plan for the new week- As long as you have expectations, you must have a plan to match it. Plan ahead for the coming week. Your plans must be clear and purposeful and without anxiety.

 

 

Use these simple keys, apply yourself diligently and unlock your success.

 

 

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Accelerate your daily achievements

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Every new day offers us fresh opportunities to make a difference and achieve our greatness.

 
However, the steps we take and principles we follow will always determines the results we achieve.

 
So today I’ll share with you 3 simple but powerful and critical questions that will guarantee your achievements at all times. You need to ask:

 
1. What do you really want? – This question gives clarity of desire. Life offers us a variety of choices to make at all times, you must be clear and sure about your preferences.

 
2. Why do you want it? – This question reveals the purpose of your desire. When purpose is not known abuse becomes inevitable. You must have a good understanding of the reason for your desire.

 

3. What steps do you take to achieve it? – This question gives precise direction to your desire. You need to take the right steps and have the right plans, strategies, objectives and targets that will help you execute efficiently in order to birth your dreams and turn your ideas to fruition.

 

So it’s up to you now, to ask these questions, find genuine answers and execute until you win today and always!

 

Here’s to your success…

 

Cheers!

 

 

Prolific life and Leadership lessons from the train.

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A few days ago, I had to travel from Abuja to Kaduna to do a training for one of my clients and my preferred means of transport was by rail.

 

 

So I arrived the train station early that morning to catch my train to Kaduna, I got my ticket, boarded the train and at 7am we took of from Idu train station, headed for Rigasa station in Kaduna.

 

 

As I sat back and enjoyed the 2hours 15mins ride, I began to glean prolific life and Leadership lessons from the train and I’ll share with you:

 

 

1. The train is a vehicle with capacity to carry both people and luggage- As a leader, you need to build capacity in order to achieve and sustain your success.

 

 

2. The train has an engine positioned in front which gives vision and direction to the train- Vision and direction are great leadership qualities and are necessary ingredients for success in life.

 
3. The train operates by time and is time bound- As a leader, You must value time and maximize time to reach your Greatness.

 

 
4. The train rides along it’s assigned track or lane- In life, you must learn to focus on your assigned track and mind your lane. As a leader, focus is critical to hitting your goals and targets.

 
5. The train has many stop overs and halts but one destination- on the journey of life, there are many stop overs, but you must know your destination and remain tenacious till you get there.

 

 
6. As the train gets to each halt and stop over, passengers board and un-board- On your journey to success, people come in and go out of your life at various times, you must know the right time to let them come and go.

 

 

7. The engineer who pilots the train must be trained- In life you must have adequate and appreciable level of knowledge to achieve success and reach your greatness. Read, learn, grow.

 
8. The engine carries the fire power that propels the entire train towards it’s destination- Success doesn’t just happen by chance, you must have enough dexterity and fire power that can propel you towards your dreams.

 

 

9. I observed there was a sense of orderliness with the seating arrangements in the train- Every leader needs character. Order is the major difference between a bush and a garden. Order breeds increase and a life void of order will seldom succeed.

 
10. The train applies series of caution to ensure a safe ride- life’s journey may seem rough, rugged and unending but in all, you must learn to wisely apply caution to ensure you safely reach your greatness.

 
11. The train blares it’s horn periodically to signal it’s advancement to it’s surrounding- As we journey through life, you must be critical about the kind of signal you send out to your surrounding.

 

 

12. The train has an entire crew that makes each journey possible- In life, teamwork makes the dream work. One is too small a number to achieve greatness. You must get the right team in order to win life’s game.

 

These are the few lessons I gleaned from my train ride. Learn, unlearn and apply yourself diligently.

 

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Unlocking the doors of success

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In a recent chat with a friend about business success, I pointed out four key factors that will help any young entrepreneur succeed amongst others and I want to share those thoughts with you.

 

1. You must get used to rejection: For many reasons, people out there will hate your ideas, misunderstand, misinterpret and out rightly reject you and your amazing dream and ideas as you journey in the world of business, but you must get used to it. Rejection must provoke redirection and reprojection and never ejection.

 

2. You must be relentless: Recently a friend of mine wrote of how he was inspired by failure and has grown to become a force to be reckoned with in the world of entrepreneurship in his state. This was only possible because he was relentless! Many people fail and fall and quickly give up for one reason or the other, but my friend failed forward and his failure has propelled him to greater heights.

 
3. You must have faith: One universal secret of success is FAITH. Your belief about yourself and your dream plays a critical role in determining whether or not you will rise or fall. Without faith, success becomes largely impossible!

 

4. You must know your game well: Athletes win because they master their games and even in the game of business, Mastery thrives over mediocrity. It is therefore your responsibility to know your game, master it and play to win. And when you become a master, choose to grow your mastery in order to remain relevant.

 

I shared these thoughts spontaneously as I chatted with my friend about how my journey to the world of business has been.

 

There are certainly other factors that breed success but if you’re a young business minded person with big dreams, then I urge you to note these four factors listed above and apply yourself diligently.

 

See you at the top!

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Strategic collaboration

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One of the many lessons I have learnt about life is that all creations were designed to function through partnership because nothing can be fruitful by itself.

A tree doesn’t make a forest, so whenever you get isolated, you miss your chances of fruitfulness.

Strategic partnership exists and functions for a common purpose, with a common vision and by a common strategy and they are guided by these principles:

READINESS: There must first be the mutual readiness of the partners and each of them must be prepared and equipped for the alliance.

PURPOSE: The partners must have a common vision, interest and intersection of purpose that orchestrates the partnership.

UNDERSTANDING: There must be an acceptable depth of understanding that builds the foundation of agreement for partnership because two can’t work together unless they agree. Effective communication enhances understanding.

TRUST: Each partner must build mutual trust and have a reservoir of character, integrity and capability.

FOCUS: There must be a focus on the common interest, the vision and the goal of the partnership.

SYNERGY: Each partner must value their connection and synergize, so as to create a win-win partnership.

INVESTMENT: Partners must be willing to invest in each other and in their partnership.

EXPERTISE: Each partner must bring on board his strength, gift, knowledge, specialty and talent to grow their strategy and partnership.

Successful people everywhere understand that one is too small a number to achieve greatness, so they seek better collaboration instead of bitter competition.

It is therefore your responsibility to find your strategic partners and succeed together!

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